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Fricken heck, life, its all still crushingly linea but becoming dotted, one foot after the other. Today was a day off so I drove the sprog to school & went back to bed for an hour. Got up & went to my sister-in-laws parents place to fix the sealant in their luxury bathroom that they had installed at unbelievable expense two years ago. Let myself in and got on with it, took ages about it, cutting out all the brown bits with a razor blade. I probably only used a teaspoon of sealant exactly where it was needed with absolutely no mess or damage. Mrs came home as I was leaving and thanked me. She had irked me earlier by asking me to do it but adding breezily that if I didn't get around to it she was sure her son-in-law (my bro) could do it when they get back from london (anything I can do he could do). Went to see my pa and found to my delight that my other brother (I have several) had been around earlier and taken him out for his shopping & haircut. Went to town for mundane stuff, almost brought a jumper but didn't. Picked up the sprog & her mate from school & took them to the mall & gave them money for afternoon tea. Took them home, they watched a horror dvd while I cleaned up and made cooked, took them to town where they are now, according to the texts) sitting drinking hot choc in a cafe, it was nice, at one point we were singing;'teenagers scare the living shit outta me'. Home now watching tv on friday night. Its a wonderful life.

fnit

My ex is trying to matchmake me with her best friend. Not really that into it but haven't had sex for months.

I'm a sucker for things either being universal or infinitely particular.

With people that means that I attribute behavior to things that are either essential to understand or impossible to understand.

Some things are impossible to understand because their motivation must stem from many different directions that I wont know about.

Other things can be understood by simple empathy.

Either way, everyone has valid reasons for being the way they are.

This is quite possibly lazy thinking.